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EliasAlucard
Kvinnor är dock kåta av sig också, men pga lägre testosteronhalter, och rent allmänt hormonkrångel, är kvinnor helt enkelt inte lika intresserade av att knulla som män är. Kvinnor är också rätt ofta deppiga osv, och det bidrar väl inte till någon större sexlust.
1) Kvinnor blir kåta ibland men det betyder inte att de vill ha sex för det. När kvinnor blir kåta äter de godis och tittar på TV.
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Titta på vad den här kvinnan säger,
a) hon föredrar att äta kakor framför att ha sex för att det är lättare och ger samma njutning,
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Joan Sewell talks about her new book, I'd Rather Eat Chocolate, and the politically incorrect reality that most married women just aren't that into sex
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The idea that women’s sex drive can match men’s is politically correct piffle, says Sewell, who is 45. Her memoir, I’d Rather Eat Chocolate: Learning to Love My Low Libido, recounts one frustration after another in a buildup to an anticlimactic conclusion: she’s just not that into sex.
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So you'd really rather have a brownie than an orgasm?
You know, that’s actually a tough one, and I’ll tell you why. When I reach an orgasm, I’m so proud of myself that it kind of overcomes the brownie. But as far as gratification, the brownie is always there. I have to work for my orgasms.
And the brownie you can just pick up at the bakery?
Oh, yeah. I mean I don’t have to say, “Was that brownie as good for you as it was for me?” And I don’t have to think, I’m almost near the brownie, I’m almost near it, oop, here it is! I got the brownie. And that type of thing. Having an orgasm—I do have orgasms—is more like an award. I’ve planted the flag on Everest. But as far as the effort to get there, a lot of times it’s not worth it.
b) en del kvinnor gillar sex,
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You do acknowledge that there are some women with high sex drives, but you seem to resent them.
It’s not resentment—it’s envy. I feel envy for genuinely lusty women.
c) kvinnor har inte sex bara för att de blir kåta,
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See, I do get horny, but I’m not so horny that I’m confident it’s going to take me through all the stages of a sex act. And if I fall out of the horniness in the middle, because I’m distracted, then it’s just a slog. The rest of it is just a slog. I want maybe sexual release or relief from anxiety, but involving another person, my libido isn’t strong enough where I can take all the variances. He starts doing this he starts doing that, and it’s like instantly, Okay, I’m out of it.
3) Titta på vad den här bögen säger,
http://www.thestranger.com/seattle/S...ove?oid=175188
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And I'm saddened to report that, according to Sewell and Loh, there's no such thing as a woman who wants sex constantly. They don't exist—never did.
All that yammering about women with voracious sexual appetites during Sex and the City's reign of terror? A cruel hoax. A figment of the straight-male imagination, a Big Lie picked up on and promoted by self-serving female "sexperts" eager to tell straight men what they wanted to hear. Women have naturally lower sex drives, Sewell writes. It's a hormonal thing. Testosterone makes humans horny, men have way more than women, so men are hornier—and all the Sex and the City repeats in the world aren't going to change that.
So if straight women don't want sex—or as much sex—what do they want? Chocolate, says Sewell, or a good book. Massive amounts of carbs, says Loh, who approvingly writes of a lesbian couple she knows. With no men around demanding sex, Loh's lesbian friends are livin' the dream: "Teri and Pat have had a special Monday-night ritual. They order an extra-large cheese pizza," writes Loh, "[and] settle in on the couch with large twin bags of Doritos. Each chip is dipped first in cream cheese and then in salsa. Cream cheese, salsa. Cream cheese, salsa.... The Doritos are finished to the last crumb, and then, upon arrival, the pizza as well." (No dessert is mentioned—I imagine it's just one wafer-thin mint.) Teri and Pat are 50 pounds overweight and suffer from "lesbian bed death," but for them, pizza-and-Doritos night is "better than sex." Loh, who has a sex-starved husband at home, is green with envy.
ni kan se att kvinnor föredrar skräp-mat framför sex alla gånger. Hence varför alla kvinnor är feta idag.