1) Här är 2 kvinnor som beskriver hur sex funkar för kvinnor,
Girlfriend[25] Tells Me[M23] After 3 Years That She Doesn't Feel Anything During Sex
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At the beginning we had sex all the time. Soft, rough, long and short; she looked like she was having multiple orgasms and she only mentioned it hurt a few times because she had an infection. After a while, we decided to purchase an apartment together
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It wasn't until a few weeks ago that she said she would tell me something she has never told anyone, not even her previous boyfriends and that was that she wouldn't feel anything 'nice' during intercourse; she said she liked the emotional part but penetration, oral, fingering and dry humping just felt like she was rubbing her arm, no pleasure at all.
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She did admit not to lie, but to fake she was sexually enjoying herself during our intimacy. All this time at her mother's I justified her rejections due to a geographical situation but I turns out she actually doesn't want to have sex.
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she says she's never ever felt sexual desire, not even in high school before being on the pill.
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Sorry, but as a woman I can tell u I've had friends admit this too. Seems to be a fair share of women who can't feel anything pleasurable down there & its not the kind of thing one can admit in a our bipolar sex glorifying/shaming culture.
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Just think for a moment of how many billions of people there are on the planet. Wouldn't it be reasonable that a lot of women can feel a lot during sex, and a lot of women can feel a little, and a fair share of women can't feel anything at all? They do exist.
I'm just afraid that you are jumping to taking this personally when she's told you it's a physical issue. I have had guys take it to mean I'm not into them because I need foreplay. Because my body doesn't work like theirs, then it means I'm not into them. It's just how plenty of women are wired and it's no slight against the guy.
Now, having said that - some sex therapists will ask the woman has she ever experienced physical pleasure during sex? Then, imagine Brad Pitt was fucking her - (or whoever her celebrity crush is) - does she think she would want to do it or enjoy it? Then, it's for her to really ponder why she would or would not. If she gets no physical pleasure out of it, but still would want to - maybe she gets pleasure from pleasing her partner? Plenty of women are like this too. I'm personally HL, but since I can't cum from PIV - a large part of my pleasure comes from seeing how much he is enjoying it. If I'm really into it, I get some physical pleasure - but even if he goes for 4 hrs I'm not going to cum because my clit needs to be touched.
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My thought is that many women feel the same as your girlfriend, very few admit to it. I don't think there's a cure. The OBGYN will have nothing to say to you. This type of problem has been mixed up in sexual politics for a hundred years. At one time medical science assumed that no women got pleasure from sex. Feminist fought back against that idea. But it turns out, some women actually don't. Who's going to fund a study about this. No one. It's too controversial.
2) Det här är det normala alltså att kvinnor inte får njutning av penetration, att de fejkar när de har sex, och att de egentligen inte vill ha sex.
3) Som kvinnan i en av kommentarerna säger är det inte PK för kvinnor att säga det högt därför att det finns en kulturell förväntning på att kvinnor ska gilla sex. Ni kan se att flera av männen säger att killen ska dumpa tjejen direkt.
4) Kan ni se varför kvinnor
pratar om hur mycket de gillar sex (typ i media) men aldrig tar initiativet till sex IRL?
