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Why don’t help out economically then? If you’re such a good father. She is clearly struggling right now.
If she and Kevin were to break up she would be in a lot of trouble. The best thing would be to help her get an own apartment and help pay for it.
I would hate for her to live with her mother again.
i have been helping her financially whenever she asks for money as i can send directly to her bank account within 24 hours
I have worked out what i have sent her over the last 12 months and its well above what i was paying Ida in child support, well above, but the last couple of months i have held off sending as much because i don't want to create a dependance or a lack of motivation on her part, i can totally understand the situation she is in because Ida never motivated her for the future, this is where i have a lot of frustration because the social services tied my hands behind my back and now issy is in this situation, they created the problem and now she is left with little to no help from the people that put her in the situation.
Isabelle knows that if anything were to happen in her relationship with kevin that she is absolutely welcome to come to Australia to live and i would be in a much better position to provide for her here, she knows that in no way would she have to go back and live with Ida.
Isabelle has to either get into study or employment as soon as possible, and then i can help supplement her income and help pay her rent when she finds an apartment, my fear is now is that if i throw money every month then she could get stuck where she is because her needs are just being met.
Hope that makes sense