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Ursprungligen postat av
Ipsi
Jaha. Jag trodde du syftade på att detskulle vara tillåtet att utöva sexuellt våld mot såna som man är gift med.
1) Hela poängen med att gifta sig är man ska få garanterat sex. Varför skulle man annars göra det?
2) Att kvinnor sen har ändrat dealen till att de får alla fördelar med att vara gifta men inte behöver ha sex visar bara hur mycket kvinnor suger.
3) Här är ett exempel på hur det här beteendet tvingar män att köpa sex,
Turning to prostitutes
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Please read this with an open mind and not judge me.
10 years into our marriage.
I am 40 male (HL) and my wife is 37 (LL). I often would initiate sex but gets turned down due to her being tired or not feeling well etc.
We had sex every other day in order to conceive. When first kiddo arrived, we stopped for a while. She then decided to plan for 2nd kid. And again, sex every other day.
It all stopped when she was pregnant with our 2nd kid. That was 4 years ago.
To put it bluntly. I felt so used. And i had to deal with cold turkey.
I've tried being romantic, getting her flowers occasionally, bringing her to a mini cruise etc. But her LL came after we had our 2nd child and it seems no matter what I do, I just cant get the sex I crave for.
It came to a point where I just stopped inititating it altogether. We only had sex 3 times in the last 4 years. The last time we had sex was 6 months ago.
Masturbating may provide temporary relief. But since i craved for sex, I had to turn to prostitutes. Not something I'm proud of, but at least it gets the job done. This is because I found myself gawking at pretty ladies in public and at times getting a hard on at times. Usually after a session with prostitute, it kind of helped soothe things and I can actually focus on my work and not think about sex for a while. I seek out a prostitute around once every 2-3 months.
Perhaps I should accept the fact that my wife would never wanna have sex. I cant bring myself to ask for an open relationship either as we asians have very conservative mindset. I cant bring myself to ask for a divorce either as I dont want my kids to have separated parents.
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Here's my dilemma. I'm kinda guilty about going to prostitutes.I know this helps me gain back my focus on my work, family etc. And when I go sexless for months, I tend to get frustrated and out of focus on my job.
Should I feel guilty about going to prostitutes, since I cant get any sex from wife ?
^ så här ser det ut för majoriteten av sexköparna.