2021-06-23, 17:10
  #1
Medlem
I am soon 20. I only have about 25K sek saved up. Currently dont have a job but im looking and applying, its hard tho. My parents are middle eastern. We never got along, always fight and they judge me a lot and are quite negative. Also, they live 2h away from city in country side and its too much time waste in public transport.

So even with the little money i have saved up, I decided to move out in June and have been renting now at a pretty sweet price in the city center. I am paying 3000sek and need to leave by end of june so just 1 month.

Ive been loving living here in the city. I feel independent and i dont have negative energy around me. I met my parents yesterday for coffee and it went well. I guess distance makes the heart grow fonder, as they say.

Anyways. I need advice and guidance. I dont want to regret my choices in the future/waste money. So which of these 4 options should I go for after this month?

1. Temporary 1 month july room with super fun roommates that i met this week. 3k without deposit. Very central location. Figures things out during this month.

2. Room in small shared flat with roommates that i havent met (2 girls in mid 20s. Im a girl as well). 3k/month. 3k deposit. Can rent as long as i want. 1 month notice. Central location too.

3. Go back to parents. 2h away from city and we don't get along well.

4. Au pair (live for free with a family but in exchange work 25+h/week babysitting their kids). I earn 3500sek/month from them. I have the interview tonight so this isnt 100% guaranteed yet. Also idk how it would be freedom-wise.
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Senast redigerad av zzm01 2021-06-23 kl. 17:22.
Citera
2021-06-23, 17:18
  #2
Medlem
.SMOrcimus.PriMEs avatar
I would go with option 2 personally as it seems more secure than option 1.

If option 1 would be longer than just 1 month Id say stay there as you seem to like it there.
Citera
2021-06-23, 17:20
  #3
Medlem
Option 2 obviously.
Citera
2021-06-23, 17:37
  #4
Medlem
Option #4 if accepted the position. Then, when you have settled in your future decisions, move along with new options. Having an income and free living will give you room to save and make plans for the future.
Citera
2021-06-24, 11:08
  #5
Medlem
Citat:
Ursprungligen postat av GorillaGulleGull
Option #4 if accepted the position. Then, when you have settled in your future decisions, move along with new options. Having an income and free living will give you room to save and make plans for the future.

Honestly if it was easy to find a job, i would have went with option 2. But option 4 since job+rent is already included... but dont know if ill like it.
Citera
2021-06-24, 12:02
  #6
Medlem
Pungterings avatar
Inte 3.
3 är absolut sämst.

Allt annat löser sig.
Citera
2021-06-24, 12:33
  #7
Medlem
Citat:
Ursprungligen postat av Pungtering
Inte 3.
3 är absolut sämst.

Allt annat löser sig.

Pick one option then, help me decide😅🙏
Citera
2021-06-24, 12:35
  #8
Medlem
Pungterings avatar
Citat:
Ursprungligen postat av zzm01
Pick one option then, help me decide😅🙏

Använd tärning.

Alla andra funkar, så det är bara att välja. Kvittar helt.
Citera

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