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Ursprungligen postat av
CarrieFisher
Haha de tjejer jag har träffat har haft betydligt större sexdrift än vad jag själv har.
1) Hur vet du (ni) att de inte fejkar?
2) De flesta kvinnor börjar inte en relation med att vägra ha sex (duh) de låtsas så länge som det krävs för att låsa in mannen sen trappar de ner gradvis.
3) Här är vetenskapliga belägg för det,
Being in a long-term relationship kills sex drive of women
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Women who are in a long-term relationship are more likely to experience a decrease in sexual desire, scientists have said. Changes in relationship status were found to affect several different sexual functions, but a libido decline after spending years with the same person was the most pronounced trend overall.
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This is why new research published in Psychological Medicine looks at women's sexual functions – including desire, sexual satisfaction and orgasm – over a period of seven years, and takes into account what kind of relationships these women were in.
Data from 2,173 Finnish women from two large-scale, population-based data registers was collected for the study, seven years apart. The scientists used the female sexual function index, a questionnaire used to assess domains of sexual function in women in clinical trials. Effects of age and relationship duration were taken into account in the statistical analysis.
Boosting sexual desire
The researchers discovered that most aspects of women's sexual functions appeared unstable over the years. Previous sexual function was not a good predictor of future sexual function overall, with satisfaction, pain and arousal changing over time. Sexual satisfaction in particular varied greatly in seven years, but the ability to have an orgasm remained stable for most women – suggesting that sexual satisfaction and orgasm are not always linked.
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Indeed, women who stayed in the same monogamous relationship from the beginning to the end of the study reported the greatest decrease in their sex drive. Women who had started a new relationship during the course of the study also experienced reduced libido, but to a smaller degree. Finally, women who were single at the end of the observation period reported stable sexual desire.
Why Women Lose Interest in Sex
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New research is demonstrating what many people already knew from experience: Women lose interest in sex over time, while men don't.
The finding has the potential to help couples, the researchers said. Knowing that many women's sexual desire diminishes over the course of a relationship could encourage both partners to be more realistic about their sex lives, and could help them weather the changes in desire as they occur.
Sex researchers Sarah Murray and Robin Milhausen, both of the University of Guelph in Ontario, Canada, asked 170 undergraduate women and men who had been in heterosexual relationships for anywhere from one month to nine years to report on their levels of relationship satisfaction, sexual satisfaction and sexual desire. Desire was scored using an established model called the Female Sexual Function Index, which ranges from 1.2 to 6.0.
The participants reported being generally satisfied with their relationships and sex lives, but women reported lower levels of desire depending on the length of their relationship. "Specifically, for each additional month women in this study were in a relationship with their partner, their sexual desire decreased by 0.02 on the Female Sexual Function Index," the authors wrote online Jan. 23 in the Journal of Sex & Marital Therapy.
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Men consistently report higher levels of sexual desire than women. Differences in levels of hormones — testosterone, specifically — are believed to at least partially explain the gender divide.
Hormonal changes that occur as couples move from the passionate early stage to the compassionate later stage into monogamous relationships sometime between six and 30 months may also mediate changes in desire over time.
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"I think that individuals who expect to maintain the high level of excitement and passion that often exists in the first few months of a new relationship are setting up unrealistic expectations about what is to come and will be more disappointed when the desire and passion take on different forms," she said.
She added that normalizing the fact that sexual desire may decrease over time may help both sexes to understand that this decrease does not necessarily mean anything is intrinsically wrong with their relationship, and may help couples put more effort into their sexual relationship.
Women Settle for Mediocre Sex, Scientist Finds
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[BWomen have high expectations for nearly every area of their lives, but ]when it comes to sex, they settle for less.[/b]
And most women keep their dissatisfaction with sex a secret, leaving their partners (let alone their doctors) in the dark, said Anita Clayton, a psychiatrist who focuses on women's sexuality at the University of Virginia Health System.
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Clayton attributes several factors to a woman's lack of sexual satisfaction, including:
Sex gets shoved to the bottom of the "to do" list for women. And when they do have sex it becomes just another task.
Women are not getting their emotional needs met during sex. An orgasm might not be the point.
Many women strive for unrealistic physical perfection seen in the media and are unhappy with some aspect of their physical bodies.
Women don't ask for what they want in bed, fearing their partner will be hurt or leave them.
Medications such as antidepressants can reduce a woman's libido and ability to reach orgasm.
det här betyder inte att kvinnors sexlust minskar det betyder att kvinnor fejkar sexlust i början av en relation och sen går de tillbaka till sitt naturligt frigida tillstånd.
