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Ursprungligen postat av
WordWarrior
Babianen har rätt. En hel del kvinnor njuter av att bli våldtagna eller tvingade till sex. De som säger något annat är bara intresserade av att skydda kvinnors heder, för man vet att män blir galna av ilska när de förstår det, och betraktar detta som ett svek. Det här är en sida hos kvinnan man inte vill se. Kvinnor förlorar på att sanningen kommer fram, eftersom det då blir svårare att krama resurser ur män med hjälp av sex.
Det här är information jag ställer mig neutral till, eftersom naturen skapat kvinnan genom evolution på det här sättet. Det är bara att acceptera hur verkligheten ser ut, även om det är svårt för många huvudsakligen känslostyrda människor.
1) Majoriteten av kvinnor har responsive desire, alltså de blir mentalt upphetsade först
efter att sexet har börjat,
Do You Understand Female Sexual Desire?
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"Responsive desire" is when the motivation to have sex begins AFTER sexual behavior has started. As in, you're doing something else when your partner comes over and starts kissin' on ya, and you go, "Oh yeah! That's a good idea!" Or you and your partner set aside Friday night as Sex Night, and then Sex Night gets here and you're like, "Oh, Sex Night. But I'm so tired..." But you made a deal, so you get started... and before long you've forgotten you were tired.
This is contrasted with "spontaneous" desire, more typical of male sexuality, which works more like this: you're walking down the street and for no immediately obvious reason you think, "Hm. I'd like to have sex!" Or you're taking a shower getting ready for bed and you think, "Hm. I'd like to have sex!"
Regardless of what body or identity you have, if you're more of a "responsive" desire person you might have worried that your interest in sex was abnormally low - worrying about how much we do or don't want sex is something we've been well-trained to do. Indeed, so many people have asked me how often they're "supposed to want sex," I've started looking for a memorable, funny stock answer that gently illustrates the absurdity of the question."
The Arousal Principle: The Complexity And Simplicity Of Female Erotic Desire
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Researchers have begun to understand that sexual response is not the linear mechanism they once thought it was. The previous model, originating in the late ‘70s, described a lack of ‘sexual fantasies and desire for sexual activity.’ It placed sexual desire first, as if it were a hunger, motivating an individual to pursue satisfaction. Desire was conceptualized as emerging more or less ‘spontaneously.’ And some people do feel they experience desire that way. Desire first, then arousal. But it turns out many people (perhaps especially women) often experience desire as responsive, emerging in response to, rather than in anticipation of, erotic stimulation. Arousal first, then desire. Both desire styles are normal and healthy. Neither is associated with pain or any disorder of arousal or orgasm.
2) Så när en kvinnan blir våldtagen leder den fysiska stimulansen till att hon blir mentalt upphetsad och börjar tycka om det.
