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1. Du motsäger ju allt detta, även dina väninnor.
2. Studierna visar ju på motsatsen. Kvinnor gillar sex i mer varierande grad än män, men 90% gillar sex även om 10% är feministiska manshatare.
Från vilket land kommer du från som har så konstig verklighetsuppfattning?
1) Motsäger vad?
2) Really?
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sex differences in sociosexuality were generally large and demonstrated cross-cultural universality across the 48 nations of the ISDP,
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In a comprehensive review, Baumeister, Catanese, and Vohs
(2001) surveyed a broad range of research results indicating
that, on average, men’s sex drive is higher than women’s. In
summarizing their findings, they observed that ‘‘[t]here were
no measures that showed women having stronger drives than
men’’ (p. 264).
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I computed a reliable (a = .82) multi-item
self-report measure of sex drive, and in a sample of over
1,700 participants, heterosexual men and women showed a
large difference in their self-reported sex drive (d = .82).
Furthermore, women were more variable than men in their
sex drive (female to male variance ratios were 1.43 for
heterosexual participants).
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Schmitt concluded that ‘‘[t]hese results…place sex
differences in sociosexuality…among the largest and culturally
most robust ever documented in the domain of sex
and human mating’’
studierna visar att kvinnor
generellt och i alla kulturer har
lägre sexdrift än män.
3) Sen visar kvinnor högre variation = en liten grupp kvinnor gillar sex.
4) Så det är tvärtom 90% är feministiska manshatare annars hade inte kvinnor haft lägre sexdrift än män.
5) Här är mer belägg,
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Numerous studies have tried to establish that these basic evolutionary claims are in
fact functional. An American study conducted by Clark and Hatfield elaborated on
the substantial differences between men and women in terms of sexual initiative-
taking by assigning male students the task of asking passers-by, who were female
students similar to them on a scale of attractiveness, whether they would come with
a student to his apartment to have sex.
None of the women agreed to the proposition. But when women were assigned the
same task, and presented the question to male passers-by, three in four men were
ready to go to have sex with the woman. Even the rest were regretful and explained
their refusal by saying that they were in a committed, monogamous relationships.
None of the women expressed regret, or justified the rejection of the offer of sex.
Buss and Schmidt study presented similar findings. The task was to determine how
long an acquaintanceship it required (seven alternatives, from one hour to five years)
for men and women to be ready to have sex. In all sub-five-year alternatives, the
men showed much greater willingness to have sex. It seems, then, that the bar for
men is lower than it is for women, when it comes to having sex. The cause may not
be evolution or biology, but men’s stronger sexual desires or behaviour models that
have been socially learned.
Men have shown greater interest than women in a diversity of sexual partners. One
way this is illustrated is that, compared with women, men express a wish for three
times the number of lifetime sex partners. Women may have different motives than
men when entering into temporary relationships. In addition, they are more likely to
feel used in short-term relationships, even when they cannot rationally explain why
they feel that way. Men, on the other hand, usually feel no anxiety over even large
numbers of short-term relationships.
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In the United States, the men that women have chosen as partners earn on average
50 percent more than the men who were not chosen. In many countries, a husband
who is not fiscally generous enough toward his wife has constituted grounds for
divorce. There is no country in which it is grounds for divorce that a woman does
not support her husband economically to a sufficient degree.
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In the United States, women who were presented photographs of men and asked to
choose potential dating, sex, and marriage partners preferred men who wore Rolex
watches on their wrists and designer suit jackets, even though these men were other-
wise physically less attractive than men in the other photographs. Men, on the other
hand, made their selections in the same test purely on the basis of a woman’s physical
looks. Even the way the women dressed had nothing to do with the men’s choice.
6) Här är belägg för att kvinnor försöker begränsa andra kvinnors sexualitet för att kunna sälja sex till män så dyrt som möjligt,
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Research that was reviewed by Baumeister and Twenge found support for the theory
of a particular sexual control exerted among and by women. Mothers and female
friends teach girls and young women to exercise greater sexual restraint than men.
The rite of passage into womanhood is still often via motherhood rather than any
sexual performance. Even the custom of female genital mutilation has been upheld
by women. It is the girls’ boyfriends who try to encourage them to be more sexually
active.
Even adult women receive more negative feedback from other women, not men,
whenever they offend against sexual norms. Women are also more likely to sup-
port double standards by condemning the same sexual behaviour more harshly for
women than for men. It is important for women to restrict the sexual activity of
other women, so that they minimize their own risk of losing their man in the event
that they do not measure up to the man’s sexual expectations. It would be difficult
for the man to find another woman in those circumstances. Both men and women
want their spouses to remain faithful. Wives, however, have been more sexually
possessive than husbands.
The legislation (created by men) that governs sexual behaviour primarily provides
sexual restrictions directed at men. It is women who for the most part apply religious
sexual norms into practice. Women are more likely than men to support norms that
promote sexual restraint, whereas men are more likely than women to support a
liberal approach to sexual matters. Justifications for this have included that women’s
mere sexual liberation without economic and political liberation may place women
in an even more difficult situation.
Many women oppose alternative forms of sexual enjoyment for men, including
prostitution and pornography. This opposition is consistent with the idea that women
want to control men’s opportunities for sexual enjoyment. This fits in with the sexual
exchange theory presented in an earlier chapter on commercial sex, and with the idea
that women have an interest in keeping the price of sex as high as possible.
