Det finns inga bevis för att han har mördat henne, utan det finns bara bevis för att han har begått griftefridsbrott mot henne.
Dött kan hon ha gjort på olika sätt som gett henne skadorna på huvudet: självmord, olycka i hemmet, epileptiskt anfall eller annan sjukdom som gör att hon ramlar och slår sig.
Sen kan ni läsa om olika former av självskadebeteende här nedan, speciellt det fetstilta:
"Eighty percent of self-harm involves stabbing or cutting the skin with a sharp object.[8][34][35] However, the number of self-harm methods are only limited by an individual's inventiveness and their determination to harm themselves; this includes burning, self-poisoning, alcohol abuse, self-embedding of objects, hair pulling,
bruising/hitting one's self, scratching to hurt one's self, knowingly abusing over the counter or prescription drugs, and forms of self-harm related to anorexia and bulimia."
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https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Self-harm#Signs_and_symptoms )
Och det är väldigt vanligt att man känner att man vill slå sig i huvudet när man mår psykiskt dåligt. Läs en berättelse här:
"I used to do this as kid. I would hit myself in the side of the head when I got really angry. I never understood why, I just knew that's what I did when I got really mad but it also was never in front of anyone. As an adult I understand it a little more now. When we are angry our bodies need to have a physical response. This why when I get mad I stomp my feet sometimes even jump up and down or scream. It has to go somewhere. I tend to hide my feelings. So it builds up inside me and then it has to go somewhere. I was once told when feeling this way grab a small rug, like something that might be in your kitchen or hallway or even a bath mat and shake it out really hard. This helps get out the physical response without hurting yourself or anything else. I've also been told a technique which I also use for anxiety and it has worked for me. Count backwards from 10–1 in a different language. It's sounds silly but it has helped me. This helps switch our brain from the emotional part to the thinking part and you can't do both at once so it helps calm the emotions. The hardest part is remembering to do it when you’re angry. So perhaps learn to pay attention to the signs that you have before you get real angry. Wishing you well!"
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https://www.quora.com/Why-do-I-hit-punch-myself-in-the-head-face-when-Im-angry )
Och den här på samma sida:
"I’ve never experienced this in my life until this year. It’s how pain is manifesting. I switch between wanting to feel, blank, numb, not good enough, stifled intimately. Mostly I feel alone in the world and that I will remain alone inside. I feel sadness inside and it hurts. I cry at night and then have hit myself. It sounds ridiculous to someone who is overly rational or someone who can’t tap into deep feelings.
I’m angry at myself for failing a relationship with who I loved. I’m angry that they chose someone or others over me and it makes me feel on a daily basis inside that I am not good enough. If you are ever cheated on and/or they end a relationship with you after many years, then sleep with someone else right away, it makes you feel deeply inadequate. The pain can be soul crushing because it’s the person you bared your soul to for 9 years. The person you would have always been there for, it’s a denial of your love and a rejection of all you are. It tarnishes beautiful memories, innocence, growing up together and experiencing profound love.
To realize you were chosen for more appealing or interesting people and things when you would stand by someone unconditionally shatters your view of who you are and who you were with for a long time. The most unnerving and pointless thing is you’re the only one in this kind of pain because the person who ended the relationship was ready to try other things and may even be relieved. They got rid of you essentially. Love is a deep form of sharing ultimately and it’s not replaceable.
Grief is why I’ve done something as irrational as hit myself in the head. I exercise, run, play guitar, write, cry, listen to music, make food, but I feel my love is absent and taken by someone who no longer wants me."
Och många fler berättelser på samma sida.
Och varför begick Tishko i så fall griftefridsbrott om Wilma dog "på egen hand"?
Ett tänkbart svar: Han var inte psykiskt frisk själv då.
