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Ursprungligen postat av
nousernameneeded
De vill bli slagna? Ett självskadebeteende är inte normalt.
1)
Hur vet du att det inte är normalt?
2) Titta på studien om appetitive aggression som jag länkade till tidigare,
https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/head-games/201305/the-allure-aggressive-men
3) I ett farligt land som USA är det evolutionärt adaptivt att välja en aggressiv man, män som slår sina kvinnor indikerar högre appetitive aggression. Här är ett case study,
http://therawness.com/why-black-american-chicks-like-thugs/
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One of the tenets of evolutionary psychology is that women are programmed to test men for strength and leadership. Constantly. The theory is that in prehistoric times, the world was a much more dangerous place, especially for women, who could easily be raped or killed at will. Weapons were primitive, there weren’t laws to protect rights and society was not very civilized. Women needed men that were strong and dominant to offer them protection from other men who may try to invade. For this reason, it was in a woman’s best interest to test a potential mate. If he was too weak to stand up to her and let her walk all over him, then how could he protect her and their children from other men? If he was wishy-washy in day to day activities, how could he make important decisions in a time of crisis?